Penalties for abundance
Ok. Polyfolk, I have a question. How many relationships/connections does a potential partner have to have before you decide that person is too busy or doesn't have enough time for you?
I ask this because I think that while a person may be poly, there is still a strong urge in most (if not all) of us to want to have a significant portion of a person's time if we're going to be romantically linked. And, I think that most people will make that snap judgement without consulting their person of interest.
"Oh, he's already seeing 2,643 women, he surely doesn't have time for me!"
What is that point for you? Or is the number of connections that someone has not even a factor for you?